Episode 11 - Bugging People and Making Friends with Ben Goldschmidt

This engaging episode of the Amusing Minds Podcast features guest Ben Goldschmidt, delving into the intriguing topic of "bugging people and making friends," which is primarily interpreted as the nuanced role of teasing in fostering and maintaining relationships. The discussion opens with Larry sharing his childhood experiences of being teased, a common occurrence as children navigate social interactions from kindergarten through high school. Host Ben defines teasing as a fundamental process of testing social boundaries to discern what is acceptable and what is not within a relationship. The episode then explores various personal experiences with teasing and the development of nicknames. Host Ben recounts being teased in middle school about his appearance, which prompted a significant change in his look during high school.

Guest Ben shares nicknames he's acquired, such as "Ben Jammin" and "Benny G Ride," and discusses how the latter nickname initially strengthened a friendship, though the bond eventually dissolved due to the other person's actions. Larry also mentions his childhood nicknames like "grubby" and "little Larry," as well as his online screen name "Lahri," which originated from a friend's mispronunciation. A critical aspect of the conversation is the delicate line between teasing and bullying. The guests emphasize that teasing crosses into bullying when an individual explicitly requests it to stop, or if the teasing becomes the primary basis of the connection. They stress the crucial importance of reading social cues and recognizing when someone is genuinely uncomfortable.

The discussion further distinguishes between teasing about controllable traits (like behavior) versus uncontrollable traits (like names or appearance), suggesting that initial teasing should stick to more general, controllable aspects. Deeper friendships, however, might allow for teasing about uncontrollable traits, but only when a mutual foundation of appreciation and understanding is firmly established. Host Ben shares his experience as a university professor, where he employs playful teasing to create a comfortable learning environment for students, highlighting the importance of quickly clarifying his intent if a student takes it seriously. The episode concludes with valuable advice on making friends. Host Ben advises vulnerability, allowing others to truly see you, as genuine friends will support you and even tease you about your vulnerabilities in a way that encourages personal growth. Guest Ben, from an engineering perspective, suggests a broad approach: surrounding oneself with many people to eventually find a compatible group. Larry humorously adds that true friendship can be measured by comfort levels, such as being able to "fart around each other." The podcast ultimately emphasizes that teasing can be a positive form of play in relationships, provided there is genuine care and accountability for one's actions and words, ensuring it never escalates into bullying.

Episode 9 - Being a Creative in 2021 with Mario the Artisan Rogue

This insightful episode of the Amusing Minds Podcast features special guest Mario, known as "the artisan rogue," a talented illustrator, mason, and sculptor. The core of the discussion revolves around the multifaceted challenges faced by artists and creative individuals when attempting to build and sustain a freelancing business in the year 2021. The hosts and Mario share their personal experiences, noting the varied impacts of the ongoing pandemic—some found an increase in commission work, while others grappled with canceled conventions that significantly hampered their business.

The conversation delves into the inherent difficulties of creative work, including the struggle to effectively balance a demanding day job with passionate creative pursuits, the common feeling of being too exhausted to create, and the concept of "seasonal" lulls in creative productivity. A key emphasis is placed on the vital importance of incorporating rest and planning into a creative routine, particularly during periods of low output. The concept of "creator's guilt" is introduced, highlighting the immense pressure artists often feel to constantly produce new content. The discussion also covers the complexities of scheduling creative time and how overly rigid schedules can paradoxically lead to frustration and hinder the creative flow.

Mario offers invaluable advice for aspiring artists and those looking to enter the creative field. He stresses that personality, strong interpersonal skills, reliability, and trustworthiness can often be more crucial than exceptional talent, as being "good to work with" is a significant asset. He encourages budding artists to embrace what they genuinely love and to cultivate a unique niche, emphasizing that there is a market for even the most obscure interests. Mario passionately advises artists to "give a shit" about their work, as genuine passion is palpable and naturally attracts opportunities. He concludes by highlighting that success often stems more from "who you know" rather than solely "what you know," underscoring the critical importance of building a supportive network within the creative community.

Episode 8 - Surviving the Medieval Ages with Travis Buck

This enthralling episode of the "Amusing Minds Podcast" features a captivating interview with Travis Buck, who unveils a treasure trove of fun facts and ingenious secrets for surviving the perilous medieval ages. The discussion kicks off with a cautionary tale: "Don't Go Boating Drunk." This invaluable tip is vividly illustrated by the infamous "White Ship Disaster" of 1120, a maritime tragedy where King Henry I's son, William Adelin, and many others perished in the English Channel due to drunken revelry and a foolhardy attempt to race the king's vessel. William Adelin initially escaped the wreck but bravely returned to rescue his half-sister Matilda, only to be overwhelmed by others clinging to the wreckage, while the captain, Thomas Fitzsteven, chose to drown himself rather than face the king's wrath.

The episode continues with more intriguing medieval survival hacks and historical anecdotes. Travis shares a fascinating, albeit apocryphal, medieval life hack where townspeople ingeniously tricked the devil into building a bridge by offering the first soul to cross it, then cunningly sending a dog instead of a human. Another critical survival lesson highlights the necessity of bringing water on a Crusade, exemplified by a devastating slaughter at the Battle of the Horns of Hattin around 1187-1189, where an army marched into the desert unprepared, making them vulnerable to attack. The discussion also delves into the brutal realities of medieval tournaments, which were essentially large-scale battles where participants could capture "hostages" for ransom, with a notable story about the legendary knight William Marshall whose hostage cleverly escaped by grabbing a rooftop.

Furthermore, Travis warns against the dangers of "Crazy Bread," explaining that during periods of scarcity, people would supplement their diet with unhealthy ingredients like poppies, hemp, and darnel. More dangerously, barley or rye contaminated with ergot could produce lysergic acid, leading to hallucinogenic effects and the infamous "crazy bread." He also recounts the cautionary tale of King Henry I, who, having already lost his son in the White Ship disaster, ironically died from overeating lampreys against his doctor's advice, underscoring the perils of excessive consumption of this fatty delicacy. The episode concludes with Travis discussing his upcoming historical fiction book, inspired by authors like Ken Follett, which will embed fictional characters within real historical events such as the crusades and explore complex themes including religious conviction and gender identity, featuring transgender characters based on historical religious beliefs.

Episode 8 - Hobbies with Mike Hewitt

In this engaging episode of the Amusing Minds Podcast, hosts Ben and Rodney dive into a comprehensive discussion about hobbies with special guest Mike Hewitt. The episode begins with the hosts and Mike sharing their personal experiences and passions. Larry describes his enjoyment of cosplay and crafting props, finding deep satisfaction in the creation process. Ben reveals a diverse range of past and current hobbies, including filmmaking, designing board and card games, creating costumes, and engaging in role-playing games. He also mentions leather crafting to support his attendance at comic conventions and his general love for stories found in video games, TV, and movies. Mike humorously refers to his "man cave" as a "place of broken dreams or forgotten hobbies" due to his many past attempts, noting that programming, which is also his job, remains his only consistent hobby. More recently, Mike has found joy in oil painting, sculpting, puzzles, and collecting records, and previously delved into saltwater fish keeping and even Dungeons & Dragons, at one point making and selling dungeon tiles.

A significant and recurring theme throughout the discussion revolves around the underlying motivations for engaging in hobbies and, conversely, the reasons why some hobbies are eventually discontinued. The hosts and Mike explore whether hobbies are pursued for financial gain, the acquisition of knowledge, or simply personal fulfillment. Mike, for instance, often ties the "excellence" or proficiency of his hobbies to whether someone is willing to purchase what he creates, using sales as a form of validation for his work. This leads to a broader exploration of whether every hobby needs to become a "hustle"—that is, whether it must yield some form of tangible gain, financial or otherwise. Mike admits his inclination to consider how a hobby could be monetized, while Ben offers Diablo 3 as a contrasting example of a "non-hustle" hobby pursued purely for personal enjoyment.

The conversation also highlights the social dimension of hobbies, with Mike emphasizing that many of his interests are primarily about connecting with other people and having fun through collaborative activities like making videos or playing board games. The episode also touches on the challenge of simply relaxing during downtime versus the perceived need to always be productive. Ben shares his past tendency to constantly seek productivity and how he consciously learned to schedule breaks to prevent burnout. Mike's concluding advice to the audience is to "do as many things as possible" and to embrace and enjoy life's myriad experiences. He also promotes his website, yourdndtools.com, a resource he is developing for Dungeons & Dragons players.

Episode 7 - Brainstorming with Jay Sparks

This insightful episode of the Amusing Minds Podcast features Jay Sparks, an entrepreneurship coordinator, who joins the hosts to dissect the multifaceted topic of brainstorming. The conversation kicks off with the hosts sharing their personal struggles with creative blocks and the diverse strategies they employ to overcome them, ranging from collaborating with others to actively experimenting with nascent concepts. Jay then sheds light on his daily work, which involves guiding small businesses and solopreneurs in developing their ideas, providing an interesting example of assisting someone aspiring to launch a non-alcoholic bar.

A core theme of the discussion is the inherent nature of entrepreneurship. Jay emphasizes that there is "no blueprint" for entrepreneurial success, asserting that "everyone's making it up as you go along." He strongly advocates for action-oriented slogans like "version one is better than version none" and "start small, fail faster," designed to encourage proactive engagement and learning from inevitable mistakes. The conversation then delves into the origins of new ideas, with the hosts suggesting that creativity can stem from individual inspiration, environmental influences, or the deliberate challenge of pushing oneself beyond comfort zones.

The participants also thoroughly explore the dynamics of group brainstorming, weighing the pros and cons of different group sizes. They note that while two minds can be excellent for free-flowing ideas, three minds often prove more effective for decision-making dueating to the emergence of a voting dynamic and constructive skepticism. An anthropological limit of 12-15 people is even suggested for optimal group brainstorming effectiveness. Various methods for documenting ideas—from whiteboards to Google Docs and Trello—are shared, with an emphasis on choosing the method that best aligns with individual preferences and thought processes. Jay's concluding advice for anyone seeking to develop a new idea is to immerse themselves fully in the subject matter and then find a documentation method that resonates with them. The hosts reiterate the crucial importance of taking action, embracing failure as a learning opportunity, and actively seeking feedback.

Episode 6: Fan Fiction and Head Canon with Jashin Lin

 

This episode of "Amusing Minds with Ben and Rodney" features guest Jashin Lin, diving deep into the fascinating worlds of fan fiction and head canon. The discussion defines fan fiction as creative works written by fans, tracing its modern origins back to the 1960s and 70s with the burgeoning Star Trek fandom. It’s categorized broadly as "transformative fan works," which encompass various forms like fan videos, filks, and fan art that expand upon or reinterpret existing creative material. Head canon, on the other hand, is presented as a more personal extension of fan theories, where individuals internally regard certain ideas or interpretations as true within a fictional universe, even if they lack official validation.

The hosts and Jashin share their personal connections to this creative sphere. Ben expresses his fascination with how fans craft their own versions of established fictional universes, while Rodney, though less experienced with reading fan fiction, enjoys theorizing, drawing parallels to popular "who would win in a fight" scenarios. Jashin's personal journey into fan fiction began in seventh grade around 1999-2000, introduced by a friend who was deeply immersed in Sailor Moon fan fiction. For her, it served as a vital escape and a source of intellectual stimulation, aligning perfectly with her inherent love for reading and writing. The conversation also highlights how fan fiction has evolved into a "remix culture," continually reinterpreting existing material, and its significant role as a launchpad for aspiring writers, offering immediate feedback and a platform to refine their craft, as evidenced by authors like Naomi Novik and John Scalzi who began their careers in fan fiction.

The episode further explores the delicate balance between fan theories and official canon. Ben appreciates fan theories that enrich existing narratives or resolve unresolved questions, citing the Captain America/Natasha fan theory as an example. However, Rodney expresses concern that overly invested fan theories can lead to disappointment if official releases fail to meet fan expectations, a sentiment Jashin echoes, noting how some fans declare their "childhoods ruined" when new content contradicts their speculations. The discussion also touches upon the intellectual property aspect, noting that copyright is a relatively modern concept compared to centuries of human storytelling. Jashin points out that J.K. Rowling was an early advocate for fandom, encouraging fan fiction writers rather than viewing them as copyright infringers. The episode also covers the unwritten rule that fan fiction writers generally should not profit from their work to avoid legal issues, and the dual nature of fan communities, offering both supportive spaces and the potential for toxicity. Jashin recommends Archive of Our Own (AO3) and Fanlore.org as excellent resources for exploring fan fiction and fandom history.

Episode 5 - Crazy Theories with Liz Geiser

 

This intriguing episode of Amusing Minds features a captivating discussion about various "crazy theories" that challenge common perceptions of reality and existence, with special guest Charlie Geiser. While acknowledging that some conspiracy theories can indeed be dangerous, Liz's unique approach leans more towards grandiose philosophy and imaginative storytelling, often likened to the creation of entire worlds or universes in fiction. A central focus is Liz's favorite theory: "the Rule of Plus or Minus Seven." This concept posits a recurring pattern of seven significant figures found across diverse world cultures and religions, suggesting a profound, underlying connection. They point out how various cultures, from Greek gods like Zeus and his pantheon to Christian lore with Jesus and his disciples, and even ancient Egyptian deities, consistently feature this "plus or minus seven" pattern.

Liz further suggests that figures such as Zeus, Odin, Michael, and Quetzalcoatl might, in essence, be the same entity, given the strikingly shared narratives found across different pantheons of gods. They argue that this consistent pattern is simply too precise and widespread to be mere coincidence. Building on this, Liz proposes a speculative timeline based on the reported ages of these figures across cultures, drawing a loose connection to the disproven theory of Pangaea. They describe a fascinating progression from young, active gods in South America to older, more distant figures in North America, then spiritual beings in the "eastern bloc," and finally to the Greek pantheon, where a great war among these entities had supposedly just concluded.

The discussion takes an even more abstract turn as Liz postulates that humanity is sharing the world not with traditional gods or aliens, but with sentient energy. This energy, they suggest, exists on our plane but is not always perceivable until it chooses to manifest. They draw compelling parallels between patterns found in nature—such as nervous systems, root systems, rivers, and lightning—and this sentient energy, implying that everything is connected through a "path of least resistance." This theory, they argue, explains why individuals feel immediate connections or aversions to people they've just met, as their energies are constantly communicating. The episode concludes with the hosts encouraging listeners to boldly question their existence and belief systems, exploring new ideas without necessarily discarding their current beliefs, and celebrating humanity's continuous quest for knowledge and understanding of the universe.

Episode 4 - The Nature of Disagreement with Adam Simmons

 

In this thought-provoking episode of Amusing Minds, hosts Rodney and Ben, joined by guest Adam Simmons, delve into the intricate complexities of online discussions, disagreements, and debates. The conversation begins by exploring how online exchanges are often characterized by definitive statements, which frequently lead to disagreements rather than productive discussions. Ben shares his personal experience, highlighting how disagreements, especially those challenging core identities, tend to feel more prominent and emotionally influential online compared to instances of agreement. The group also examines how varying intentions—whether trying to be right or genuinely seeking understanding—can profoundly shape the nature and outcome of online interactions.

A significant part of the discussion revolves around the unwritten rules of communication that, when overlooked, can easily lead to misunderstandings and the hasty labeling of individuals as "a-holes." Ben recounts a personal anecdote where a family member resorted to ad hominem attacks rather than addressing the factual information, illustrating the profound difficulty of reconciling such interactions. The hosts and guest then debate the most effective approach to correcting misinformation online, considering whether public or private corrections are better and the potential for such attempts to be perceived as attacks. Ben articulates his belief that he is not responsible for the emotional reactions of others, even when his communication is clear and well-intentioned.

Larry introduces the concept of adapting communication to another person's level of understanding, drawing a parallel to how he simplifies complex computer topics for his clients. Rodney suggests that questioning someone's beliefs, rather than directly correcting them, can be a more effective strategy for fostering understanding and reducing emotional tension. The episode concludes with a positive anecdote from Ben, where presenting factual information to a woman about college affordability led to a productive exchange, challenging her preconceived notions. The overarching consensus is that communication is a multifaceted and crucial skill, emphasizing the vital importance of active listening, seeking genuine understanding, and being keenly mindful of how one's communication is perceived in the online realm.

Episode 3 - The First Sandwich in Space! Weird History with Travis Buck

This episode of the Amusing Minds Podcast features hosts Ben, Rodney, and their guest Travis Buck, delving into a captivating blend of unusual historical anecdotes and speculative discussions. A highlight of the conversation is the bizarre tale of John Young, an astronaut who famously smuggled a corned beef sandwich onto the Gemini 3 mission in 1965. This seemingly innocuous act led to crumbs floating around the cockpit, causing significant trouble for Young and Gus Grissom, ultimately making it both the first and last corned beef sandwich to ever journey into space. The discussion expands to cover the broader topic of smuggling items onto space missions, humorously speculating on everything from pockets in space suits to other curious items like a golf club used on the moon.

Travis shares his unique approach to uncovering these peculiar historical narratives, often describing it as falling down "Wikipedia rabbit holes." He explains how Wikipedia's cited sources serve as a starting point for his deep dives into the past. This leads into another fascinating anecdote: a real-life, bizarre assassination attempt in New York City in 1946 involving a sawed-off shotgun in a box, a story he learned about through a television show. The conversation further shifts into hypothetical scenarios, prompting the hosts and Travis to muse about what they would smuggle into space if given the chance, conjuring humorous ideas such as a Taco Bell grilled cheese burrito, Jell-O to observe its jiggle in zero gravity, or spaghetti alfredo.

Beyond the historical oddities, the episode branches into deeper, more philosophical and scientific musings. The trio explores concepts like the Fermi Paradox and various theories surrounding alien civilizations. This includes intriguing notions such as the possibility of Earth being "quarantined" by other species due to humanity's perceived "crazy" nature, or the idea that highly advanced civilizations might exist primarily within complex virtual reality simulations. The blend of historical intrigue, personal speculation, and cosmic contemplation makes for a truly amusing and thought-provoking episode.

Amusing Minds Podcast: Episode 2 - Fish Facts and Funny Voices

In this episode of the "Amusing Minds Podcast," the hosts welcome Kate Shea of Children of Proteus to discuss "Fish Facts and Funny Voices." The conversation navigates various topics, starting with a lively debate about aquariums and the welfare of fish in captivity versus their natural environment, touching on deep-sea fears and scuba diving experiences.

A significant portion of the episode is dedicated to "funny voices." Kate shares her expertise in creating distinct voices for "Dungeons and Dragons" characters, and the hosts attempt various impressions, including Christopher Walken, Shaggy, and Gollum. Kate recounts her personal history with fish, including rehabilitating several, and explains how her upbringing with a commercial fisherman father sparked her interest in marine life.

The hosts debunk common fish myths, such as the idea that goldfish only grow to the size of their tank, clarifying that their growth is often stunted by bacteria. They also explore the unique characteristics of jellyfish, identifying many as "hive minds" of organisms, and ponder the vast, unexplored depths of the ocean and the potential for undiscovered creatures.

Kate expresses a strong dislike for tilapia, labeling them an invasive species that pollutes aquatic environments. She further elaborates on her funny voices, including her "Clementina" persona used for clamming and a Scottish accent for a comic book character. The hosts playfully imagine what various fish, like tuna, blue sharks, and swordfish, would sound like if they could speak. The discussion takes a speculative turn with a theory about "space crabs" capable of surviving in the vacuum of space.

The episode concludes with reflections on the fascinating fish facts learned, the intricate connections within the ocean, and the importance of embracing the lighter, more humorous aspects of life.

Amusing Minds Podcast: Episode 1 - People Watching

 

In this inaugural episode of Amusing Minds, the hosts welcome Ash from BadAsh Cosplay to delve into the fascinating phenomenon of "people watching." The discussion kicks off with personal anecdotes from conventions, where the hosts, particularly Ben, observe how engrossed people can be in their own worlds, often oblivious to their surroundings. This leads to a playful debate about whether people watching borders on being a "peeping tom" or if it's a natural human inclination to build narratives about strangers, akin to a "CIA sleeper agent" profiling others. Larry shares his experience of creating stories about people observed from a distance, like those seen at a pool during vacation.

The conversation then shifts to the difference between observing people in real life versus on screen. The hosts and Ash agree that real-life observations offer a more authentic glimpse into a person's true self, as non-verbal cues and genuine reactions are fully present, unlike the often curated or pre-recorded nature of digital content. They touch upon reality TV shows that mimic people watching by observing reactions to moral dilemmas.

Ash shares her perspective as a self-proclaimed people watcher since middle school, often observing others at conventions and malls to gather information and understand different perspectives, especially in arguments. As a high school math teacher, she applies these observational skills to understand student interactions, noting that adult behaviors often mirror those of high schoolers. The impact of first impressions and how physical appearance, like cosplay, can affect interactions and confidence is also explored.

The episode also delves into self-awareness, with Ash sharing her conscious effort to reduce self-centered language in conversations after realizing she was overusing "I". The discussion circles back to the captivating nature of drama, whether in real life or through entertainment genres, and the individual limits to how much drama one can handle.

The podcast concludes by exploring the meditative and sometimes anxiety-inducing effects of people watching. While it can be relaxing and a way to take in the world, recent events like the pandemic have heightened awareness of safety and personal space, transforming what was once a calming activity into one tinged with paranoia for some. Larry emphasizes how observing moments in real life can create lasting memories and offer valuable life lessons.